The compressed blobs we send back and forth are small and infrequent,
which doesn't justify the 8MB * GOMAXPROCS memory that was being
allocated. This was the overwhelming majority of memory use in
tailscaled. On my system it goes from ~100M RSS to ~15M RSS (which is
still suspiciously high, but we can worry about that more later).
Signed-off-by: Avery Pennarun <apenwarr@tailscale.com>
Also stop logging data sent/received from nodes we're not connected to (ie all those `x`s being logged in the `peers: ` line)
Signed-off-by: Wendi <wendi.yu@yahoo.ca>