Run an inotify goroutine and watch if another program takes over
/etc/inotify.conf. Log if so.
For now this only logs. In the future I want to wire it up into the
health system to warn (visible in "tailscale status", etc) about the
situation, with a short URL to more info about how you should really
be using systemd-resolved if you want programs to not fight over your
DNS files on Linux.
Updates #4254 etc etc
Change-Id: I86ad9125717d266d0e3822d4d847d88da6a0daaa
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>