Bigger changes coming later, but this should improve things a bit in
the meantime.
Rationale:
* 2 minutes -> 45 seconds: 2 minutes was overkill and never considered
phones/battery at the time. It was totally arbitrary. 45 seconds is
also arbitrary but is less than 2 minutes.
* heartbeat from 2 seconds to 3 seconds: in practice this meant two
packets per second (2 pings and 2 pongs every 2 seconds) because the
other side was also pinging us every 2 seconds on their own.
That's just overkill. (see #540 too)
So in the worst case before: when we sent a single packet (say: a DNS
packet), we ended up sending 61 packets over 2 minutes: the 1 DNS
query and then then 60 disco pings (2 minutes / 2 seconds) & received
the same (1 DNS response + 60 pongs). Now it's 15. In 1.22 we plan to
remove this whole timer-based heartbeat mechanism entirely.
The 5 seconds to 6.5 seconds change is just stretching out that
interval so you can still miss two heartbeats (other 3 + 3 seconds
would be greater than 5 seconds). This means that if your peer moves
without telling you, you can have a path out for 6.5 seconds
now instead of 5 seconds before disco finds a new one. That will also
improve in 1.22 when we start doing UDP+DERP at the same time
when confidence starts to go down on a UDP path.
Updates #3363
Change-Id: Ic2314bbdaf42edcdd7103014b775db9cf4facb47
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>