cmd/k8s-operator,k8s-operator/sessionrecording,sessionrecording,ssh/tailssh: refactor session recording functionality
Refactor SSH session recording functionality (mostly the bits related to
Kubernetes API server proxy 'kubectl exec' session recording):
- move the session recording bits used by both Tailscale SSH
and the Kubernetes API server proxy into a shared sessionrecording package,
to avoid having the operator to import ssh/tailssh
- move the Kubernetes API server proxy session recording functionality
into a k8s-operator/sessionrecording package, add some abstractions
in preparation for adding support for a second streaming protocol (WebSockets)
Updates tailscale/corp#19821
Signed-off-by: Irbe Krumina <irbe@tailscale.com>