When we're starting child processes on Windows that are CLI programs that
don't need to output to a console, we should pass in DETACHED_PROCESS as a
CreationFlag on SysProcAttr. This prevents the OS from even creating a console
for the child (and paying the associated time/space penalty for new conhost
processes). This is more efficient than letting the OS create the console
window and then subsequently trying to hide it, which we were doing at a few
callsites.
Fixes#12270
Signed-off-by: Aaron Klotz <aaron@tailscale.com>