In a configuration where the local node (ip1) has a different IP (ip2)
that it uses to communicate with a peer (ip3) we would do UDP flow
tracking on the `ip2->ip3` tuple. When we receive the response from
the peer `ip3->ip2` we would dnat it back to `ip3->ip1` which would
then not match the flow track state and the packet would get dropped.
To fix this, we should do flow tracking on the `ip1->ip3` tuple instead
of `ip2->ip3` which requires doing SNAT after the running filterPacketOutboundToWireGuard.
Updates tailscale/corp#19971, tailscale/corp#8020
Signed-off-by: Maisem Ali <maisem@tailscale.com>