control/{controlknobs,controlclient}: simplify knobs API, fix controlclient crash
From integration tests elsewhere:
panic: runtime error: invalid memory address or nil pointer dereference
[signal SIGSEGV: segmentation violation code=0x1 addr=0x70 pc=0x845c9b]
goroutine 226 [running]:
tailscale.com/control/controlclient.(*Direct).sendMapRequest(0xc00053e1e0, 0x16670f0, 0xc000353780, 0xffffffffffffffff, 0xc0003e5f10, 0x0, 0x0)
/home/runner/go/pkg/mod/tailscale.com@v1.1.1-0.20210715222212-1bb6abc604c1/control/controlclient/direct.go:803 +0x19bb
tailscale.com/control/controlclient.(*Direct).PollNetMap(...)
/home/runner/go/pkg/mod/tailscale.com@v1.1.1-0.20210715222212-1bb6abc604c1/control/controlclient/direct.go:574
tailscale.com/control/controlclient.(*Auto).mapRoutine(0xc00052a1e0)
/home/runner/go/pkg/mod/tailscale.com@v1.1.1-0.20210715222212-1bb6abc604c1/control/controlclient/auto.go:464 +0x571
created by tailscale.com/control/controlclient.(*Auto).Start
/home/runner/go/pkg/mod/tailscale.com@v1.1.1-0.20210715222212-1bb6abc604c1/control/controlclient/auto.go:151 +0x65
exit status 2
Also remove types/opt.Bool API addition which is now unnecessary.
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>