This change (subject to some limitations) looks for the EDNS OPT record
in queries and responses, clamping the size field to fit within our DNS
receive buffer. If the size field is smaller than the DNS receive buffer
then it is left unchanged.
I think we will eventually need to transition to fully processing the
DNS queries to handle all situations, but this should cover the most
common case.
Mostly fixes#2066
Signed-off-by: Adrian Dewhurst <adrian@tailscale.com>
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