At startup the client doesn't yet have the DERP map so can't do STUN
queries against DERP servers, so it only knows it local interface
addresses, not its STUN-mapped addresses.
We were reporting the interface-local addresses to control, getting
the DERP map, and then immediately reporting the full set of
updates. That was an extra HTTP request to control, but worse: it was
an extra broadcast from control out to all the peers in the network.
Now, skip the initial update if there are no stun results and we don't
have a DERP map.
More work remains optimizing start-up requests/map updates, but this
is a start.
Updates tailscale/corp#557
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